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Ali baba has serious advice for ladies here, smile is not permitted here for now so laughter will be a major crime be warned.
Sometime
back, in March, I was advising a babe on how to make a man stay. Some
comments posted in reply to my status were that men are only controlled
by their third legs, money, yansh, boobs, beauty and ego. I tried to
highlight a very serious point that babes were missing.
And that is, everyman wants better. We do not want to feel the one we let go was better.
Not
too long ago, I read some wild and wide criticism that greeted what
Stella Damasus wrote about keeping a man. To some, wrong as they were,
Stella had no business telling anyone how to keep a man. I believe she
does. I actually think she knows more than she revealed.
Back to
Stella DAMASUs’ write up. We are not all perfect. That said, when a
Musician writes a love song, do you stop listening to the love song or
letting the lyrics connect to your relationship because the singer has
divorced 8 times or has not been able to hold a relationship longer than
3 months? I don’t think so. I think STELLA did well. If you like go
call police.
Back to the HASHTAG I talked about earlier,
#WhatMadeYourGuyLeaveYou.Many ladies missed the point as they always
often do. They were talking about how men are polygamous in nature,
Cheats, irresponsible, not ready for commitment, gigolos, lack ambition,
lack self control, think with their third legs… BLA BLA BLA.
I
need to mention at this time, that i was at that time preparing to talk
to young ladies who were looking to settle down and finding the right
guy. And to tell you the truth, a lot of the ladies missed the whole
point by a mile or 2. They need to read STELLA DAMASUS’ piece.
It’s
easy for a lady to say, a guy was not serious that’s why the
relationship broke up. Or to say, he used her and dumped her for another
lady. Fine. That is what they think made the guy leave. But to be
honest, was that all there was to it?
I would like you to know
that, that is not entirely the truth. A guy would always weigh his
options. He would want to know if he is getting the best. Or if he can
see the best coming soon.
ABEG OOO
Before a lot of ladies
eat me raw, let me explain. I do agree that it’s a two way street, but I
can only speak for the WAY I HAVE BEEN ON. I AM AS STRAIGHT AS THEY
COME. I KNOW AND HAVE KNOWN ONLY WOMEN.
Have you as a babe listed
some CORE 10 things that you think you have that will make a guy not
want to leave you? Do you also have some other unique things that a guy
will not get anywhere else? Ok, lets agree he likes your breast, your
bum bum and your soft body. What has any of those got to do with
respect, the tone with which you talk to him, showing you are happy to
be the one he chose, supporting his dreams… Does he like blowjobs? Do
you give him same? Does he like talking? Do you listen? Some girls are
funny, they will admit to knowing that the other girl bests them in
several departments, yet still say, they don’t know why he moved on to
her. Really???
There several things that makes a man make up his
mind that it is you or otherwise. DONT get it twisted… If he finds out
that someone has 15 CORE things that you have only 3 of and even the 3
are sometimes canceled out by the bad things like nagging, pride,
greed…that have formed your character. Your own don set. You are sitting
there comparing yourself to someone who has 13 things, more than you
and is willing to tolerate his weaknesses and learn more. Yet you are
quick to say, you don’t know what he sees in “that girl”. Hey
girlfriend, your beauty stands no where near the towering personality
and good heart “that girl” has. Better recognize.
I know I have
stepped on that last nerve you have been tolerating me with. OYA delete
me. I even need space to add people who tolerate and think like I do.
I rest my case.
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